Do you want to...

  • Find new and fun activities to keep things interesting?

  • Get to know one another better?

  • Feel close and connected, even though you're miles apart?


  • More about each other’s strengths, sense of humor, communication style, and personality.

  • How to connect, communicate, and support each other better.

  • Fun things to do together and apart that have been proven to make people happier and healthier.

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"Practical. Doable. Fun. Get this book you won't regret it."

"Our relationship was in rough shape and most of our conversations ended up with us arguing. Our first date night using The Long Distance Dating Blueprint led to our first meaningful conversation in several months."

"We have had some great discussions, and relationship building because of this book."

MAKING IT OR BREAKING IT: What is the key difference between couples?

A couple of years after I launched this website, I started to notice a pattern—a difference between the couples whose time long distance has overall made them stronger and closer, and the couples whose time apart has badly damaged or broken their relationship...

That difference lay in the quality and depth of the conversations they were having.

The couples who were growing closer and stronger during their long distance relationship were consistently prioritizing communication.

They were finding a way to connect deeply at least once a week. They were regularly spending time asking and answering questions that helped them learn new things.

Many of the couples who were struggling (or parting ways) during their long distance relationship were not doing this. They touched base frequently, but more superficially.

They talked a lot about the trivia of their day, and how much they missed each other, but didn't have the sorts of conversations that could help them get to know each other at a deeper level and learn more about each other’s values, personality, and approach to life.

More about The Long Distance Dating Blueprint

The Long Distance Dating Blueprint is a 12-week series of “dates” that will guide you into important and interesting conversations.

In the process, it will give you tools and uncover insights that will strengthen and deepen your relationship, even while you live far apart.

You will:
  • Learn about each other’s strengths, sense of humor, communication style, and personality.
  • Discover brand-new insights about yourself and your partner (yes, no matter how long you’ve been together).
  • Do fun and fascinating positive psychology activities together that have been proven to make people happier and healthier.
What you'll cover

Here's a look at the topics we cover, and just some of the questions we will answer together.

[Week 1] Name Your Strengths: What are your strengths? You have more strengths than you might think—probably more than you know. This week we begin the process of identifying your personal strengths and labeling them.

[Week 2] Explore Your Strengths: How do your strengths work together in your relationship? We use a questionnaire to explore your strengths profile in more detail. You share your signature strengths with each other and explore how those strengths can complement each other.

[Week 3] Share Something Funny: How important is it for couples to find the same things funny? This week we explore sense of humor "compatibility" and look at when having a different sense of humor can cause big problems in a relationship. You share things you find funny.

[Week 4] Learn To Speak The Language Of Love: What is your love language? We use a questionnaire to identify your primary love language(s), identify your similarities and differences, and look at ways to speak different love languages well in a long distance relationship.

[Week 5] Go On An Adventure: Why is trying new things good for us? We will learn why trying new things can make us happier and is good for our relationships. You go on an adventure in your own city and talk about how you embrace novelty and adventure in your life.

[Week 6] Lit Pick For Two: We explore how you like to spend your free time, and how and why reading is good for you and your relationship. You both read the same book, story, or comic book, and talk it over.

[Week 7] Let’s Get Personal(ity): What is your personality? What is your partner’s? We look at whether opposites really attract, and what the best formula is for a happy couple. You use a questionnaire to identify your personality type and discuss your profile.

[Week 8] Be Grateful For The Good: Did you know some call gratitude the world’s most powerful habit? We look at how gratitude makes us happier and healthier. You practice a gratitude exercise and discuss how you experience gratitude in your life.

[Week 9] Send A Care Package: You learn about the fascinating origins of CARE packages and send a care package to your partner. You will talk about gift giving in your family, and how that has shaped your expectations and hopes around gifts and holidays now.

[Week 10] Treat Yourself: We learn about the benefits of savoring, and how positive emotions do more than just make us feel good. You treat yourself to something(s) you enjoy by designing a beautiful day out.

[Week 11] Give To Others: How does giving make us happier and healthier? We learn four surprising ways that giving is good for us and 22 good ways to give to others. You perform some random acts of kindness and discuss generosity.

[Week 12] Choose Your Own Adventure: We take a look backwards, and forwards. You choose your favorite topic to delve deeper in, and talk together about the key things you’ve learned during this series and what comes next.

FREE BONUS: The Blueprint Journal


To help you get the most out of this series, I’ve designed a special companion journal to go with it.

The Blueprint Journal is your 32-page personal workbook for this series.

It guides you through the reflection questions, discussion questions, and tasks for each week, with plenty of space for you to make notes and keep track of your answers and insights.

Printing it out and using it is the best way to make sure you will get real and lasting benefits from doing The Long Distance Dating Blueprint, and it's yours free when you buy the Blueprint.

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    401 ways to make talking together easy and fun.

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    Ten games you can play to help make 401 Questions even more fun.

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    Our great new series of in-depth dates to help long distance couples grow closer and stronger.

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    Your personal 32-page journal to use with The Long Distance Dating Blueprint.

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Love it or let me know

I'm so confident this will help your relationship I'm offering a money back guarantee. If you decide it's not working for you, just email me within 30 days and I'll issue you a full refund, no questions asked. I'll even cover the credit card processing fees.

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