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21 Important Things To Do If You Suspect Your Partner May Be Cheating

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Practical examples and thoughtful questions that will help you spot signs of infidelity, manage jealousy, and build trust in your relationship (plus a free bonus “cheat sheet”)
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Hundreds of people land on this site every day looking for help on this topic.

I frequently get emails and comments from people worried about their relationship. Here are some of the most common questions they ask:

  1. “Why does it take so long for him to answer my text or call?”
  2. “Something has changed. We used to talk all the time, but now we don’t. What’s going on?”
  3. “I lied to her. How can I tell her?”
  4. “I see photos of my boyfriend on Instagram with some of his friends that make me nervous. Am I being paranoid or should I be worried?”
  5. “Is she just telling me what she thinks I want to hear?”
  6. “My boyfriend has cheated before. Does that mean he’ll do it again?”
  7. “Some days she’s distant. Other days she makes me feel on top of the world. What does that mean?
  8. “She won’t video chat with me. What’s going on?”
  9. “Why doesn’t he want to visit?”
  10. “She wants to keep our relationship a secret. What’s up with that?”

If you feel like things have changed, or you’re wondering if they’re interested in someone else, the hurt, uncertainty, and confusion can be all-consuming.

If you already know (or strongly suspect) that he or she has cheated, the anger, shame, anxiety, emptiness and helplessness can be overwhelming.

Bottom line? This stuff HURTS.

And the other bottom line? Staying quiet and ignoring the situation is not going to fix things.

Too many people ignore red flags and warning signs in their relationship. When they start to sense that something might be going seriously wrong, they try to wait it out. They hope that things will just go back to normal. This strategy almost never works. It usually just creates extra distance in your relationship by feeding a lingering mistrust and resentment. It makes things worse.

What helps?

If things are feeling hard and uncertain in your relationship, be proactive.

You’ve already taken the first step by searching for help and advice. Now make sure you get good advice.

21 Important Things starts by discussing 20 subtle signs that your lover might be cheating. Then we get to the really important part—what to do when something seems “off” and you’re not sure what to do next.

Whether you’re in a long-distance or same-city relationship, this book will:

  • Give you a logical, step-by-step guide to help you sort through your uncertainty and pain.
  • Help you assess the evidence and figure out what’s going on.
  • Coach you on when and how to take that difficult next step and talk with your partner about this stuff.
  • Give you concrete, practical examples of things you can do and say. (And things you should not do and say!)
  • Help you examine whether and how your own jealousy and insecurities might be at work, and give you some ideas about how to control that jealousy.
  • Help you figure out what you want for yourself and the relationship, and craft an action plan that is right for you.

FREE BONUS: The “Cheat Sheet”

THE CHEAT SHEET 350x525There are some problems and questions that crop up all the time in long distance relationships when people are worried about their relationships. I listed ten of them earlier:

  1. “Why does it take so long for him to answer my text or call?”
  2. “Something has changed. We used to talk all the time, but now we don’t. What’s going on?”
  3. “I lied to her. How can I tell her?”
  4. “I see photos of my boyfriend on Instagram with some of his friends that make me nervous. Am I being paranoid or should I be worried?”
  5. “Is she just telling me what she thinks I want to hear?”
  6. “My boyfriend has cheated before. Does that mean he’ll do it again?”
  7. “Some days she’s distant. Other days she makes me feel on top of the world. What does that mean?
  8. “She won’t video chat with me. What’s going on?”
  9. “Why doesn’t he want to visit?”
  10. “She wants to keep our relationship a secret. What’s up with that?”

In this bonus “cheat sheet” I share ten real life examples of these problems and answer their questions. Learn from other people’s experiences, and hear my straight-shooting thoughts and advice about what it all means, and what you can do in these situations.

 

Money-back guarantee

If you buy this book and it doesn’t help you, just email me within 30 days of your purchase requesting a refund and I’ll give you your money back, no questions asked.

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    “…I think this book is refreshing and helpful. The author does a great job at acknowledging our rational and irrational thoughts in this situation and dissects the thoughts, meanings, and possibilities behind them. I appreciate her thorough examination of certain behaviors and gives multiple possibilities for those behaviors. Her section on (re)building relationships for cheating offenders is really great and shows that this book is meant to help relationships for both parties and not to raise more suspicion for those suspecting their partner is cheating. I highly recommend this book for anyone battling issues with jealousy or cheating in a long-distance relationship.” (Amazon reviewer)

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